Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

A journey to healing from complex trauma.

Lying hurts people, lying is sin. Lying is not love.

Weak people lie.

Weak people lie by omission.

Weak people make excuses for their lies.

Weak people fail to own their sins, their lies.

Weak people justify, defend and condone their lies.

Weak people act outraged when you stand up for yourself, revealing their lies, even if the lies have really hurt you. The liars only concern, themselves.

Weak people attack the one they lied to/about, for standing up to them.

Weak people hurt the innocent more, by continuing on in denying the truth.

Weak people don’t love, when they lie.

Weak people manipulate others into believing they are innocent, whilst trying to cast doubt on the one they have lied to/about.

Weak people who lie are weak in character, courage, strength, personality.

Weak people don’t have the courage and discipline for honesty.

Weak people support, condone, and stand up for liars.

Sadly I have seen so much of this in my life and it saddens and hurts me deeply.

But, there are good, strong people too.

Strong people have the courage for the truth.

Strong people have the wisdom for truth.

Strong people have the discipline for honesty.

Strong people stand up for themselves and refuse to be treated wrongly, by lies.

Strong people accept people’s weaknesses.

Strong people accept & understand people’s lack of; courage, discipline for honesty, and their insecurities, weakness of character.

Strong people forgive, without the need for an apology, repentance and remorse.

Strong people understand this is a truly fallen world, and most people don’t even know how much they fail.

Strong people grieve relationships with people they loved, relationships broken and ruined by lies, sin and weakness.

Strong people still love people, no matter how much they hurt you, and continue to hurt you.

Strong people feel deeply sad about all this.

Strong people have the courage to say, this hurts and I am grieving so much hurt caused by all weakness, lies and sin.

Strong people pray for the ones who are lying, and still want the best for them.

Strong people grieve.

Grieve this truly fallen world.

Author: Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

I am a survivor of complex and multiple trauma and abuse, who at the age of 40, began my healing journey. I am using my journey to recovery and healing, to help others, to help survivors feel less alone, validated, encouraged and to enable others to understand themselves more. Complex trauma, particularly from severe, prolonged childhood abuse, is profoundly life changing. Complex trauma produces complex adults. The journey to recovery is a painful, often lonely, emotional daily challenge and it is my aim to encourage others in their daily battle. ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

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