I have endured considerable abuse in my life, from birth onwards, had many people abuse me in varying ways, to varying degrees of severity.
I have spent 4 decades, thinking ‘why me’, what is it about me that all these people will hurt me, why want to hurt me, why so much, why so many abusers?
I have done the ‘what if’s’ for decades too. I have felt shame, blame and guilt for a lot that was never mine to own.
But, I have come to realise, it was never about me. Continue reading