Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

A journey to healing from complex trauma.


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Fun & laughter at putt putt golf and a bruised butt!

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It was my youngest son’s Birthday a few weeks back, and he wanted to go to putt putt golf as his main gift. He is sport and ball obsessed, bless him.

So, we went tonight to a really good one near the city, that we haven’t been to before. We got there about 6.30pm, because our sons wanted to go in the evening, because it’s floodlit, and because being kids, they think that is more special.

We had so much fun, my youngest had a ball (literally), lots of laughter and excitement, as 5yr olds do. he was so delighted.

Our other son, was very happy too, loved it and was delighted to get the only hole-in-one, which he of course had to tease his dad about, who is a golfer haha!

My highlight, was falling backwards, on a rock, in slow motion, with my arms flapping, my legs then in the air, and bruising my butt and hand. My medication I take, definitely affects several things, including my blood pressure and I normally have excellent balance, but not any more.

It looked a bit like this – only a woman – in a skirt!

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But, it was really funny, and I can really laugh at myself, so I started laughing immediately, whilst clutching my poor butt, and trying to scramble back up and pull my skirt down. Everyone was laughing! Continue reading


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The Bible speaks of apathy – as I knew it would. Because apathy is the glove into which evil slips it’s hand.

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(KJV) Revelation 3:16 – So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spue thee out of my mouth.

There are many others and I see so very clearly how apathy – particularly spiritual apathy, apathy to help others, is so wrong and those that know this is wrong, must be careful, to remember this.

Apathy is exactly what Satan wants. To not care about sin – there is no better result for Satan.

I dislike apathy and feel very strongly about this – for a reason. I know this comes from God, to motivate me, to do what is needed.

Sin, bothers me. My own sin bothers me. It makes me uneasy, it unsettles my soul – and that is actually good. Continue reading


Pedophilia as an accepted Sexual Orientation – Never!!!

I will never accept paedophilia as a sexual orientation either.

Patricia McKnight ~~ My Justice

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PLEASE SEE BELOW FOR WHAT WAS PUBLISHED AS A FACEBOOK NOTE, NOW I AM ASKING FOR HELP FROM ALL THOSE WHO FOLLOW HERE!!!

Dear Friends, Family & Media Resources;

Many of you know my story and I personally know many of your stories. You probably know the stories of many others who have endured the vicious acts of Child Sexual Abuse. Now I’m not saying that physical abuse is any less of an issue but this post is focused on the need to stop PEDOPHILES from bringing their attractions and actions against our children. The most important factor, how can a child give true ‘CONSENT’ when they can’t even decide their favorite Crayon Color? Still, we are supposed to accept this as a Sexual Orientation. ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!!

On Monday, March 10th, we did a show on Butterfly Dreams Radio about the U.K. recent talks to permit Pedophilia as a sexual…

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$175,000 per offender, per sex offender program. But no counselling for victims provided.

Wow.

Brett Peter Cowan, attended at least 4 of these program, where part was within prison and part was after he was released. And that’s just one of them. And it failed, as it mostly does.

FACTS – FROM QUEENSLAND CORRECTIVE SERVICES http://www.correctiveservices.qld.gov.au/About_Us/The_Department/Probation_and_
Parole/Managing_sex_offenders_in_the_community/DPSOA_FactSheet_Myths.pdf

Group-based sexual offending programs which use a combination of cognitive behavioural treatment and relapse prevention methods to target the criminogenic needs which are directly related to sexual offending, have been found to reduce sexual reoffending overall by up to 10 per cent. Given the impact of offending, any reduction in re-offence rates is significant.

THIS MEANS 90% OR MORE OF THESE SEX OFFENDER, WILL RE-OFFEND – EVEN WHEN THEY HAVE GONE THROUGH THESE PROGRAMS

AND GUESS WHY THESE PROGRAMS ARE RUNNING – MONEY!!!! NOT SAFETY OF SOCIETY OR CHILDREN.

Myth: Sexual offenders should serve out their full sentences with no chance of getting parole so they are kept out of the community for longer.

False: Sexual offending programs provided in prison can assist sexual offenders to develop new ways of thinking and
behaving. Transitional support programs and services can link them appropriate support mechanisms after release and help them secure housing and get jobs. These factors have been shown to further assist offenders in avoiding re-offending. Without the option of community supervision, most sexual offenders would get out of custody without any additional requirement to engage in treatment or any supervision controls to effectively manage their sexual offending behaviour. Managing sexual offenders who are amendable to treatment and can be supervised safely in the community following an appropriate custodial sentence can serve to prevent future victimisation
while also saving taxpayers dollars.

Yet, there is no decent counselling treatment provided free for the victims. Continue reading