
I have heard every excuse under the sun, for why abusers do what they do. Bottom line, they chose to abuse.
I have heard every excuse for why people avoid me when I feel really low. Bottom line, they are all self interested.
I have heard every reason why abusers get enabled, protected, justified, condoned.
I have heard every reason why abuse gets ignored, enabled, avoided, people look the other way, refuse to help the victim.
I have heard every reason why liars lie, why abusers abuse, why manipulators manipulate etc..
I have heard every reason why so many people minimize the suffering of others, whilst dramatizing their minor daily/normal life experiences.
I have heard every excuse for apathy, egocentric needs, lack of empathy, lack of remorse, lack of honesty, lack of integrity, lack of morality, lack of spiritual wisdom, lack of any wisdom, cheap grace, why abusers end up the way they are.
What I haven’t seen a lot of – is people talking about how courageous the abuse survivors are.
What I haven’t seen a lot of – is empathy and support, for those who have/are suffering.
What I haven’t seen a lot of – is courage, inner strength, compassion, empathy. Continue reading →
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