Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

A journey to healing from complex trauma.

It is so deeply wrong, when you have to seek legal advice, due to ‘Christians’.


I am seeking further legal advice and I will ensure my family and I are protected.

And if I find out there is no legal re-course against me, for exposing the truth about abuse within a Church, I will be exposing it to every person I know connected within that church, and connected outside of that church.

Including every church in the vicinity of the area.

People deserve to know the truth and they deserve to not be lied to and they deserve to not have their lives affected by people capable of doing exactly the opposite of a Christian.

And yes, we all sin – but it’s HOW you deal with that sin, that matters.

Lies, corruption, in-house covers ups, further abuse. That is not how to deal with your sins.

Author: Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

I am a survivor of complex and multiple trauma and abuse, who at the age of 40, began my healing journey. I am using my journey to recovery and healing, to help others, to help survivors feel less alone, validated, encouraged and to enable others to understand themselves more. Complex trauma, particularly from severe, prolonged childhood abuse, is profoundly life changing. Complex trauma produces complex adults. The journey to recovery is a painful, often lonely, emotional daily challenge and it is my aim to encourage others in their daily battle. ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

6 thoughts on “It is so deeply wrong, when you have to seek legal advice, due to ‘Christians’.

  1. God will protect you my friend!! Please be careful though!! God bless you and good for you to have the courage to stand up for the weak and the abused! You will be saving a life!

  2. I left a Mega Church 20 years ago In the Atlanta, GA area to escape from sexual perversion and abuse. I was on the staff as well. The truth was exposed and many were in legal situations as well.esp. the women who had been abused. The “leader of the pack” has since died, but his brother, nephews and son are keeping this incestuous situation going only changing the name of the church. My prayers for courage and strength to keep moving forward with the TRUTH.

    • I am so deeply sorry for all this Janie, it is so horrendously wrong and so the opposite of God.

      Too many churches are led by wolves in sheep’s clothing and they hurt so many people.

      These churches are not churches – they are cults.

      Any church that is not Jesus led and focussed, in the real way, is led by Satan. They just use Jesus and the Bible as their cover. Because abuse and sexual abuse, lies and manipulation – is never about being Jesus led.

      I am so sorry for all that everyone has endured and continues to endure.

      • You are so kind. Fortunately for me I have been able to get past this horrible situation. By than I mean I have moved back into a deeper relationship with my heavenly Father, but I still do not feel comfortable getting back into a church.
        I find that my childhood abuse and trauma along with my 33 year marriage of the same and more I was drawn to this type of church. I realized they were demonstrating some of those same characteristics that I was all too familiar with. Blessings to you and prayers. Janie