Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

A journey to healing from complex trauma.

What is it with many church ministers and their ego’s??


People with ego needs, flock to positions of power, where they can lord it over people. For Christians, particularly men, this is being the church minister.

They feel like no-one can have greater spiritual wisdom than they do, no-one should criticise them and don’t believe people can have greater gifts than they do.

And they only want people in the church, who stroke and massage their ego’s.

Anyone who doesn’t, or is willing to stand up and voice something different, is shot down, and not welcome.

So sad, and quite frankly, pathetic.

I have no time in my life, for such people.

Get over your ego – there is no place in ministry for ego.

That’s not about Jesus.

Author: Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

I am a survivor of complex and multiple trauma and abuse, who at the age of 40, began my healing journey. I am using my journey to recovery and healing, to help others, to help survivors feel less alone, validated, encouraged and to enable others to understand themselves more. Complex trauma, particularly from severe, prolonged childhood abuse, is profoundly life changing. Complex trauma produces complex adults. The journey to recovery is a painful, often lonely, emotional daily challenge and it is my aim to encourage others in their daily battle. ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

6 thoughts on “What is it with many church ministers and their ego’s??

  1. I agree.
    egos seek other egos…and the strongest ego with potentially pull in many egos.

  2. that is why so many people don’t like Eckhart Tolle videos.
    he doesn’t have enuf ego to keep people interested.

  3. My father was a horribly abusive malignant narcissist. No empathy, no remorse, no capacity to love anyone. He once told me he’d considered becoming a minister… I am thankful he did not become one as the thought of him potentially damaging more people than my immediate family members makes me shudder.