Validation shouldn’t matter, I know that….
But, I am also honest in knowing I appreciate validation.
Especially when it comes from professionals, who support my website, this blog and my community page.
I think everyone has a human need for validation.
And I know part of my validation seeking, is my childhood needs I never received, so I am compassionate with myself about that.
So, for today, I will thank the professional who said “Fantastic website 🙂 TY for sharing the link xx. I have passed it on to a friend who is not on twitter xx keep up the great work”
And then after I thanked her she sent this message “You’re more than welcome. I admire you and will do anything to help. Clients will find it helpful so thank you so much. x”
I can feel a little self esteem, that I have written something worthwhile, as professionals value it and I have had many messages that say that, from professionals.
I don’t think it is the best website, I need to update it actually, but I know it is good enough to help people.
And for that, I will be happy 🙂