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An example of watching ‘children in adult bodies’..at play…


People often ask what is narcissistic behaviour?

Well here is some behaviour that does indeed fit the criterion. Narcissists are bullies.

Malignant narcissists feed off your pain and enjoy seeing you suffer – read here http://house-of-mirrors.blogspot.com.au/2013/03/malignant-narcissists-feed-off-your-pain.html

When insecure ego’s feel threatened and you disagree with them – they go on the attack – like children.
Then like in playgrounds – they find another spiteful friend and gang up.
Then they do the whole giggling and laughing – you know as some children/teenagers do when being nasty and spiteful.
They are simply bullies – like children – in grown up bodies.
Emotional development stunted. Lack empathy, lack remorse, lack conscience.

It is pitiful to watch and the really sad part is – they think it bothers anyone they attack – when it is such immature behaviour – that I feel sorry for them.

They think they are clever and that no-one can see what their behaviour actually is and how pathetic it is. Ego again.

This is a succession of tweets, all because I didn’t ‘agree’ with someone’s opinion about a post of mine about narcissist’s and how they lie and believe their own lies – which they do. I ‘knew’ there was something odd about this woman’s response – red flags were flying, so I did the mature thing and just ignored, blocked. But, the ego in the woman had felt attacked, so she blew up – narcissistic rage? – and her mate drove her along – getting her to do his dirty work for him. So obvious.

You will note the laughing and chuckling – which is further proof of sociopathic/narc behaviour – as they ‘enjoy’ trying to upset people and think it’s amusing.

Normal adult people don’t act like that.

Normal people don’t delight in nasty behaviours, in ganging up on people – in enticing others to cause hassle and harassment too.

That is just delighting in evil.

And the even more embarrassing part is for them – my educational tweets about narcissism and sociopaths – were not about them – it was to educate people about this kind of abuse – but their huge ego’s – believed it was ‘all about them’.

And then they call the people they are bullying – bullies. How embarrassing.

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Author: Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

I am a survivor of complex and multiple trauma and abuse, who at the age of 40, began my healing journey. I am using my journey to recovery and healing, to help others, to help survivors feel less alone, validated, encouraged and to enable others to understand themselves more. Complex trauma, particularly from severe, prolonged childhood abuse, is profoundly life changing. Complex trauma produces complex adults. The journey to recovery is a painful, often lonely, emotional daily challenge and it is my aim to encourage others in their daily battle. ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

8 thoughts on “An example of watching ‘children in adult bodies’..at play…

  1. Yeah, I’ve been writing on the Web about my experiences with bullies for some time; more than one has found what I wrote, and responded with, “You have an interesting perspective,” or “We had a good laugh at what you wrote.” So they’ve truly done these things, but rather than repent for what they did, they sit and poke fun at you and laugh–and tell you it isn’t true. It is indeed immature. And there are so many bullies like this, on the Net and off.

    • Yes, anyone who wants to ‘laugh’ at what is written etc, is highly immature and this is a classic sigh of narcissism.
      Narcs have an emotional maturity of around aged 4, as my doctor & I discussed and she said this insight I had was correct.
      They are emotionally children, in adult bodies.
      Yes. the internet if full of them, sadly.

  2. Life is full of them, sadly they extend their narc tendencies into the virtual world. Perhaps with an even greater sense of grandure without a face to attach to the name. Thankfully for us on the receiving end, their intentions, slights and lies are plain to see. The evidence is everlasting and harder to refute.

    • Yes, I agree it is SO obvious to see what they are doing, but they don’t believe anyone can ‘work them out’.
      You only have to see this man’s own personal Twitter to see how obsessed with himself he is.
      People get sucked in by him, but I worked him out months ago.
      People like this are all over the internet.

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