Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

A journey to healing from complex trauma.

Backed up Hetty Johnson, and got told by an abusive person ‘piss of you condescending cunt’.


Hetty Johnson, who I admire and does vital work in child protection, made a comment on Twitter that was misinterpreted by someone. I also noticed she gets criticised for her work, which is typical of many in society who like to put down those who step up and do good.

So, I politely explained this person misinterpreted what Hetty had stated and got told to ‘piss off you condescending cunt’. And then this person deleted the comment, but I had already reported it.

He also says calls himself ‘Mr Wonderful’ and is abusive in other posts. Clearly narcissistic – delusions of grandeur, explosive, abusive, nasty, weak.

It had made me aware that many people will criticise others, who do good. People seem to hate those who act with courage and integrity and will find anything they can to put them down, minimize the good they do.

I realise by being on social media, I am open to being abused. But, I don’t intend to allow these abusive people to put me off.

Courage, strength, integrity….things you would think people would support.

But, often people with these qualities, get attacked.

Author: Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

I am a survivor of complex and multiple trauma and abuse, who at the age of 40, began my healing journey. I am using my journey to recovery and healing, to help others, to help survivors feel less alone, validated, encouraged and to enable others to understand themselves more. Complex trauma, particularly from severe, prolonged childhood abuse, is profoundly life changing. Complex trauma produces complex adults. The journey to recovery is a painful, often lonely, emotional daily challenge and it is my aim to encourage others in their daily battle. ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

2 thoughts on “Backed up Hetty Johnson, and got told by an abusive person ‘piss of you condescending cunt’.

  1. Sadly, this is true. I think the internet allows people to be nastier to others than they would ever be in person. I’m sorry that you had to deal with someone so unpleasant, but please know that I do appreciate your candor, integrity and courage.

    • Thank you, yes you are right, social media allows people to vent their nastiness, when they often wouldn’t do it in person.

      Social media is the playground for narcissistic, sociopathic, abusive people and they use it well.

      I can spot these types so easily.