Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

A journey to healing from complex trauma.

Narcissists, always ‘need’ the last word, and think others want this too…

Their unhealthy ego, needs it.

And because of who they are and their deep inners shame they cannot admit to having, they think everyone else is the same and has the same ‘needs’ they do.

It’s the same with their tantrums, they think they are normal, and everyone has them.

It’s the same with the lying, they lie, so they assume everyone does.

I had a narc pastor and wife tell me that ‘everyone’ lies, to somehow excuse their lies.

Well, actually no, not everyone lies, not everyone had their narc traits.

But narcs, just cannot admit who they are and what they are.

I feel sad for them.

But, I do not excuse the harm they cause either, they need dealing with.

I don’t ‘need’ to have the last word, I’ll let them have it, to appease their ego a little. I know their ego makes them hurt and angry and destructive.

Author: Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

I am a survivor of complex and multiple trauma and abuse, who at the age of 40, began my healing journey. I am using my journey to recovery and healing, to help others, to help survivors feel less alone, validated, encouraged and to enable others to understand themselves more. Complex trauma, particularly from severe, prolonged childhood abuse, is profoundly life changing. Complex trauma produces complex adults. The journey to recovery is a painful, often lonely, emotional daily challenge and it is my aim to encourage others in their daily battle. ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

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