Yes, we are free to choose, we have free will, but….

July 14, 2014 by Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

Everyone talks about how they have a ‘right’, or they are entitled to their ‘opinion’….but how often do people own the full responsibilities of their actions?

I am about to have further legal advice, from a quality law firm, about the actions/abuse of an abusive pastor, and dealing with legal consequences to his actions, that are available. And I have support, in this.

People make mistakes, people mess up, but ‘how’ you deal with it, is important, not just for yourself, but to those harmed and to all those who are around you, especially if in a position of influence.

Lying, is abuse. It is emotional abuse.

Lying to many people, whether it be outright spoken lies, lying by only telling half truths, lying by omission, lying be allowing others to believe the wrong thing, manipulating the truth, minimizing, avoiding, projecting, instead of ‘manning up’ and own your shit – all lies. All abuse.

Not owning and dealing with your wrongs, is weakness and also further abuse to the person hurt.

And all narcissism.

You abuse people, tell lies, lie to many, continue to abuse them – you accept the consequences of what may occur to you.

The truth is always needed and needs to be exposed.