Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

A journey to healing from complex trauma.

It is *very* frustrating, being able to see, what others cannot.

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It is frustrating when you can see through into people’s heart’s – good and bad, and pick up on all the traits that show whether someone is lying, narcissistic, manipulative, devious, non genuine etc….


And then hear what other people think and know they are being fooled.

And it is even more bloody frustrating when I know a situation is going to end badly AND NO-ONE WILL LISTEN, OR LISTENED WHEN I TOLD THEM!!!

My previous counsellor told me she knows how frustrating this is for me. It was good to have that validation.

So many situations in life I have known people have darkness in them and knew a bad situation was happening or would happen and I have been right, over and over.

Not because I can ‘fortune tell’, but because I can read people and see their heart issues and their real motivation.

When you know and can pick up certain behaviours, you can figure out where it is going/heading.

And it is really annoying, when people won’t listen.

People will claim I am paranoid.

I’m not, I am gifted into picking up on traits and red flags. it’s a deeper level of IQ/EQ.

But if people need to think I’m paranoid, or crazy or whatever….so be it.

Author: Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

I am a survivor of complex and multiple trauma and abuse, who at the age of 40, began my healing journey. I am using my journey to recovery and healing, to help others, to help survivors feel less alone, validated, encouraged and to enable others to understand themselves more. Complex trauma, particularly from severe, prolonged childhood abuse, is profoundly life changing. Complex trauma produces complex adults. The journey to recovery is a painful, often lonely, emotional daily challenge and it is my aim to encourage others in their daily battle. ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

One thought on “It is *very* frustrating, being able to see, what others cannot.

  1. I agree with your statement everyone is crazy and confusing in there own ways is because they listen to rumors about the person when they don’t even bother about asking the person by their selfs