I have been through hell this last few years. I have nearly lost my life, been abused, been let down by people I needed to help me, when I could least afford it.
I have processed a huge amount about my past and it has nearly killed me too.
My life has far too much darkness in it, far too much of the darker sides of humanity, I have endured over decades, by way too many people.
I have endured religious abuse repeatedly – still am as people continue lying, denying, minimizing and making me feel more shame.
I know I am absolutely over organised Christianity and all those in it. I am progressed past all that.
I know I am absolutely over abusive religious attitudes about abuse, about abusers, their perpetrator protecting, their spiritual abuse and all their massive issues I see clearly.
I am done being around people who seek to bring me down and don’t want to help/support me.
I am done being around people who put pressure on me to be like them – when I know what they are – is wrong and unhealthy and further abuses, survivors of abuse.
I want to around people who wish to be kind, caring.
I want friends who don’t know about my past, my PTSD, so I don’t get wrongly judged and treated like I am a freak who has no opinion and as soon as I disagree with them, they blame my past/PTSD – which is abusive.
I want to focus on being where I am not hurt.
I want to re-consider my current social media I share at, and think about where my time is better spent.
I want to get on with writing and finding contacts about writing my book and getting that out there.
I want to seek counselling that is not religiously led and avoid all those unhealthy issues I know are wrong.
I want a life.
I want to stop feeling shamed and hurt and let down, as I have done over the last 2 years, as well as so much of my life prior to that.
And I know, it’s up to me to sort this out and find all this.
August 14, 2014 at 12:33 am
To be honest, you’re off to a damn good start. Now keep going … take it all the way. Can’t wait to see your book on the shelf next to mine.
August 14, 2014 at 1:28 am
Thank you 🙂
I’ve got to the point where I am thinking – what am I doing – I’m stronger than this and I know I need to make changes.
What’s your book title? Is it published?? 🙂
August 14, 2014 at 1:37 am
I currently have three novels, two of which could likely be a source of inspiration for you. They’re all available on Amazon in Kindle and printed formats:
Legacy of the Bear
Prophecy of the Bear
World So Dark
I suggest you read Legacy of the Bear … it’s about finding the courage and inspiration to face and conquer one’s fears to become a better, stronger version of oneself.
August 14, 2014 at 3:05 am
Thank you for letting me know, I appreciate that. I will take a look 🙂