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Simon Bucken – arrested on suspicion of 5 counts of fraud.


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This is the man that bullied, harassed and stalked me and many others online. Fake accounts set up.

Hater Twitter account and hater Facebook page set up about me. Disgusting lies told about me.

Had his supporters call me names like ‘psycho’, lie about me.  All their messages about me on Twitter, causing me hurt and anxiety.

My motivation was only ever to warn and try to protect people, by exposing it all and in the process I went through a lot of crap, that I really didn’t need, as I am in the middle of all my own severe trauma processing.

But, I did it anyway, because I HATE seeing vulnerable people taken advantage of.

And because there always needs to be people with the integrity, courage and understanding, that abusers, fakes, liars, frauds – MUST be exposed – so they DO NOT continue hurting more people.

Obviously, it will take time, before he is in court etc.

But, right now, I am so relieved he has been arrested, and I am hoping good prevails and everything about this man comes out and is dealt with appropriately.


Update.  It has been confirmed, he has been charged and released on bail.



Author: Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

I am a survivor of complex and multiple trauma and abuse, who at the age of 40, began my healing journey. I am using my journey to recovery and healing, to help others, to help survivors feel less alone, validated, encouraged and to enable others to understand themselves more. Complex trauma, particularly from severe, prolonged childhood abuse, is profoundly life changing. Complex trauma produces complex adults. The journey to recovery is a painful, often lonely, emotional daily challenge and it is my aim to encourage others in their daily battle. ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

10 thoughts on “Simon Bucken – arrested on suspicion of 5 counts of fraud.

  1. Lilly…Is it safe to say Karma?? I am sorry he had to put you through this!

  2. It’s good to see justice done! It’s like when I discovered that my narcissist ex-friend–who defended to me things like smacking little kids in the head and screaming at them–was charged with child abuse. Sometimes their deeds catch up with them!

  3. Well done for exposing this preditor. I also have had the misfortune of crossing paths where he physically and mentally abused me for 2 years. I have been monitoring his website and when he went on GMTV I wrote to them about his history. Jail is the only thing for him, but it’s a shame us tax payers will keep him in food and accommodation.

    • He is facing 7 counts of fraud now, including faking PTSD, Cancer, being in SAS. He does very much deserve jail time. He is facing fraud for collecting charity money from people by lying about illnesses and also obtaining services and social security payments, based upon falsely claiming illnesses.

      He trolled me, threatened me and abused me considerably for exposing him. He used 5 different fake accounts to troll me on this blog, and they all had the same IP address, and were all located to the area of Leeds he lives.

      He also set up hater accounts on FB and Twitter to post disgusting lies about me.

      He displays all the traits of being a narcissistic psychopath, and he is a dangerous man. and needs stopping.

      All my info went to the Leeds police. I hope justice is done in court next year, now that the judge ruled he has to face trial.

  4. The army knew his state of mind but allowed him to continue serving. I spent along time trying to understand his character and visited care homes that he allegedly grew up in trying to piece together his past. Unfortunately back then the kind of support we have now was not their when I needed it. This was all back in the late 80’s but my life had moved on. He was diagnosed with ME years ago but I didn’t believe that. He killed my cat and physically and mentally abused me. I am wondering if Inshould now make contact it may be too late with regards what happened to me. Can I say well done to you for being strong and coming forward.

    • I am so sorry you have endured abuse from him. It is shocking that he killed your cat, but when you consider what psychopathic people are capable of, it doesn’t surprise me.

      It also doesn’t surprise me that there are more medical conditions he has faked in the past, like claiming to have ME. Just like he has faked cancer, PTSD.

      He is a pathological liar, very abusive and dangerous.

      The Leeds police may be very interested to hear what you endured from him. So it may be worth contacting them.

      The more people who report the abuse they have endured from him, the more evidence they have.

      Again, I am sorry for all you have endured from him.

  5. This man scammed me as well. He is in the UNITED STATES trying to bond with American soldiers then going on to say what a bunch of idiots we are. He would *not* leave my home. He prayed on my vulnerability as a single disabled mother suffering from REAL MEDICAL problems from a true act of violence. I am speaking out to stop this bottom dwelling fraudster.

    • He is now currently facing 7 counts of fraud for faking PTSD, cancer, combat and being in the SAS.
      There are also domestic violence issues both of his previous partners endured.
      He is a dangerous man who does need stopping.
      He displays many traits of a narcissistic/psychopathic predator.
      My advice, is to stay well away from him.
      Lilly ❤