It is okay, to feel good about our achievements/gifts/strengths ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

August 31, 2014 by Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD 1 Comment

A post to my community page 🙂

 

Over the last few months, I have been diligently beavering away, updating my Website, making it more user friendly, adding heaps of info.

 

(Website @ http://www.healingfromcomplextraumaandptsd.com/ )

I am happy with how it is now looking and thankful it helps many, and I am pleased with my achievement. It doesn’t mean I think it is the best, or is amazing, or anything of that nature. At all.

But, it is the best *I* can provide and I *am okay* with that.

We often have been programmed through abuse, to not believe anything good about ourselves, to feel like saying something is a strength, or an achievement, is not okay. Is wrong.

 

I still have issues about feeling anything good about myself – but I am working on it 😉

It isn’t wrong.

We all have strengths, we all have gifts.

And it is *okay’ to acknowledge that.

 As long as we don’t head down that route, of developing an ego, that thinks we are amazing, incredible, wonderful, better than others, more worthy than others – because that is very unhealthy and is why you won’t ever see me state those things about myself – because I am none of those things. I have humility. Not an ego.

But, I am modelling here….for us all…..to know whatever your gifts and strengths, I celebrate those with you Because you have them, and I think that is worth acknowledging.

It is all part of the healing journey, to develop healthy self esteem

Much love ~ Lilly ❤