Receiving Vindication…feels a relief and good…..and that is okay.

August 31, 2014 by Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD 2 Comments

It is okay to feel very relived and very happy, when you are vindicated of wrong doing, of people’s lies, slander and your name being trashed.

It is horrible to go through these painful times, where you are being attacked, cyber bullied, abused, lied about – where people are harming you, and other people are believing it too.

And they are all wrong.

Being vindicated is good, it is good prevailing, and it *is* okay to feel good about it.

It is truth, light and goodness prevailing,

after much darkness had previously attempted victory.

And again, I do not have to justify this to anyone. They do not know what I endured, how it affected me, affected my healing, the anxiety and stress it caused me.

They don’t know my heart motivation, and my reasons for doing what it is they chose to harm me about.  

And if they do not know me, then their opinion, does not count, matter or need to be considered.

Vindicate

ˈvɪndɪkeɪt/

verb

past tense: vindicated; past participle: vindicated

1. clear (someone) of blame or suspicion.

   “hospital staff were vindicated by the inquest verdict”

   synonyms:

   acquit, clear, absolve, free from blame, declare innocent, exonerate, exculpate, discharge, liberate, free, deliver, redeem; More informallet off, let off the hook “he maintained his innocence throughout the trial and has been fully vindicated by the jury”

   antonyms:

   convict, blame, incriminate

   • show or prove to be right, reasonable, or justified.

     “more sober views were vindicated by events”

     synonyms:

     justify, warrant, substantiate, establish, demonstrate, ratify, authenticate, verify, confirm, corroborate, prove, defend, offer grounds for, support, back, evidence, bear out, bear witness to, endorse,give credence to,lend weight to; rareextenuate “I felt I had fully vindicated my request”