Society has done a really good job of turning the word ‘victim’ into something to be ‘shamed’ about.
Which is more abuse.
That’s what people targeted & conned by fakes, frauds, abusers, narcs, sociopaths, paedophiles, sex offenders and all types of abusers etc are…victims.
I have been a victim to many.
Now I am a survivor, but at the time I was being hurt/harmed/lied to – I was a victim.
The word victim, is **nothing**to be ashamed of.
Society ‘shames’ victims.
And then inturn, minimizes
the harm the abusers, cause.
I reject this.
It is all part of the ‘shaming’ abuse victims….
victim blaming…. perpetrator protecting…
bullshit/abuse….that society promotes.
The only people who should feel the shame– are the ones who caused the abuseand those who knew about his anddid nothing to help the victim.End of..