Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

A journey to healing from complex trauma.

Abusive people have a distorted views of reality….yes…..but…


I just read this on a poster and now I can’t find it.

It went some thing like…

“Abusive people have a distorted view of reality.

Even if they were given the best toy in the world,

they would still want to break it.

It has nothing to do with you.”

I totally understand this quote and agree with it. Which makes it sound like it is not personal.


Their reasons to abuse..

 Are indeed, nothing to do with us.

But the abuse and the life long consequences, are.

It is their victims, who endure their dark issues,

and the pain and suffering because of it.

It is personal. To us.

Especially, if we loved them.

Author: Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

I am a survivor of complex and multiple trauma and abuse, who at the age of 40, began my healing journey. I am using my journey to recovery and healing, to help others, to help survivors feel less alone, validated, encouraged and to enable others to understand themselves more. Complex trauma, particularly from severe, prolonged childhood abuse, is profoundly life changing. Complex trauma produces complex adults. The journey to recovery is a painful, often lonely, emotional daily challenge and it is my aim to encourage others in their daily battle. ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

2 thoughts on “Abusive people have a distorted views of reality….yes…..but…

  1. Yes, in other words, they are evil. no other word for it. Its always the victim that suffers, even blamed, the dark and careless seem to prosper and enjoy good lives. society is geared up for them…….they built it!