A post to my page…
“I’ve been called over-sensitive, a drama queen, attention seeker, liar, all my life by my family of origin.
What I now realise, is how scared ‘they’ were, for someone to have the strength to stand up and speak the truth about the family secrets and all their deep issues.
And they didn’t want to lose the scapegoat, the one to blame, shame, put down and hurt…as was my family role.
That is not my role anymore.”
~ Lilly Hope Lucario
I know now, they saw me as a threat, because I was always different to them. I had a strength, need for honesty and goodness within me they didn’t possess and that reflected badly on them. But they could not bare to consider that, so attacked me instead.
I scared them. I made them nervous.
So they worked really hard to make sure I hated myself and no-one around me, would see me as a credible person.