A post to my page…. to validate and try to help those, who genuinely have no-one who loves them.
For those who have no-one in their life…
No-one who actually genuinely cares about the trauma, the pain, the grieving and the emotional consequences we endure…
Please know ……… I do know this.
I have gone through this, so I really do understand how painful it is.
I grew to understand, I had to learn that the only person who needed to validate me and care about my pain….. was ‘me’.
I have no-one in my life ~ who actually genuinely loves me, or cares about my past, or the pain it caused me.
My husband – doesn’t have empathy, or care. He is not interested in anything, unless it serves him. He only cares for himself and his own needs.
My family are abusers.
I have a counsellor – but she is simply that, my counsellor. She’s not my friend, or mother, or sister etc.
So ……. I became my own best friend and the person who does care about me.
It was part of my healing process, to understand and work on this.
To not do this ……… would mean I would feel that pain of no-one caring ~ indefinitely ….. and I don’t deserve that.
No-one deserves that.
And this process…. really strengthened me and helped my healing process.
Please know, you can heal this way too ~ it takes time & self compassion ~ but it can be done ❤
Much love, Lilly ❤
Update….. I am thankful sharing this on my page, helped people ❤
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