People have opinions and they are just that, opinions.
I am also so aware that church people can be just as unhealthy, as secular society. But their ego’s to believe they are ‘right’ can be even stronger.
Abuse is condoned in churches, far more than is realised, and I do not intend colluding with this darkness, at all.
Emotional abuse by narcissistic spouses, is considered okay & ‘acceptable’ – I have been told …… we ‘should’ tolerate it…. after all ‘we are all sinners’ I have heard.
What bullshit and condoning and enabling of darkness.
Child abuse is ‘needed’ – physical abuse – spanking, belting etc – is needed and what God wants.
What bullshit and condoning and enabling of darkness.
“Paedophiles should be welcomed into churches” – where children run around freely, because we must love paedophiles and not judge them, and they should be able to roam freely in places where they are then tempted by lots of children being present…. and we should ignore the fact that paedophiles cannot be re-habilitated and are opportunists and wreck people’s lives…. because that makes us good Christians..
What bullshit and condoning and enabling of darkness.
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And of course there are Bible verses that people cling onto that justify their dysfunction.
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I am starting to see how virtually all church people are unhealthy, conditioned and groomed into accepting abuse as ‘tolerable’.
And right now………. I am really fucking annoyed with myself, for listening to any of this.
Over the last 5 years – I have seen so much disordered and dysfunctional thinking… and I have been tempted to going along with it.
Now, I intend staying far, far away from it.
All of it.
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