I am very cross right now, with someone who I do think is a believer.
We have some very different views on a few things and I have felt very concerned at what I feel is a bizarre way of thinking someone has about abusers and abusive relationships and very unhealthy for me to hear.
And quite frankly I would rather stay well away from that person.
Because anything that is abuse condoning, excusing, using bizarre terms for things that I absolutely do not need to hear…….. scare the shit out of me.
It has really affected me, and I know this person – their ego will believe they are right and of course – I am wrong.
And I have now cut off all contact, because that is how I feel safe.
But, now I have this nagging voice in my head, encouraging me to sort this out. And I do know there are Bible verses about this….. and how you are supposed to sort it out, until there are no issues left……. but that is unlikely to happen……
And I really don’t want to.
I’ve said “God, are friggin’ kidding, really??!!!”.
But, the answer I get, is “Yes”.
So I said “what if it doesn’t work?”
The answer “well you tried & that’s all I expect of you”.
And now I have just read this…….. talking about conflict between believers…..