Whilst talking about how we are splitting up, my husband just sneeringly stated that I can’t live without him, I won’t get public housing, I won’t even find a homeless shelter, if he leaves and because I can’t pay the mortgage.
What a narcissistic fucking ego that is – to sneer at me – that I can’t manage/cope without him.
I will manage without him and I will find somewhere to live with my children, if my house gets sold.
This is classic narcissism, to think that he is so important that I wont be able to manage a life for myself and my children, without him and his income.
And it is a threat too.
He wants to hold control and the threat over me, that I can’t cope without him.
Emotional abuse.
100%.
March 2, 2015 at 3:59 pm
It is defiantly abuse. I hope you get free. I know it’s hard, but it’s worth it. My ex said the same thing and look at me now. Two years later and I found a great guy that is so gentle. I’m here for you.