Abuse, in any form – is okay – or neutral …. the messages I have received all my life and I still am.
It’s society’s way……. the church way……. child abuse is okay, abuse in marriage is okay, spiritual abuse is okay.
And of course the victim is the problem, the issue. The victim needs to stay quiet. And it is always the victim fault.
In fact – to call themselves a victim, is being pathetic and acting a victim. Just suck it up and get over it already and be nice to the abusers – they are nice/good people really, they are the ones who deserve the compassion and good/positive labels, not the victims.
It’s love, compassion, mercy, grace….. to condone and accept abuse…….. is the church way.
March 6, 2015 at 7:52 pm
God’s way is the right way not the churches way. He is love and He cares. I wouldn’t be alive if not for Him. Now, some of the church members are just that…church members that don’t really care. I have been hurt deeply by some yet I turn around and there is God loving me once again. God is my hope and strength not the church members. ❤
March 6, 2015 at 7:54 pm
Thank you my friend ❤
Yes you are right, just because so many unhealthy church people wish to view abuse and abusers is a very disordered way,, does not mean that is what God is about, at all.