Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

A journey to healing from complex trauma.

“Blessed is … this Union”. It’s the church way …… to believe some abuse, is okay.


Abuse, in any form – is okay – or neutral …. the messages I have received all my life and I still am.

It’s society’s way……. the church way……. child abuse is okay, abuse in marriage is okay, spiritual abuse is okay.

And of course the victim is the problem, the issue. The victim needs to stay quiet. And it is always the victim fault.

In fact – to call themselves a victim, is being pathetic and acting a victim. Just suck it up and get over it already and be nice to the abusers – they are nice/good people really, they are the ones who deserve the compassion and good/positive labels, not the victims.

It’s love, compassion, mercy, grace….. to condone and accept abuse…….. is the church way.

Author: Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

I am a survivor of complex and multiple trauma and abuse, who at the age of 40, began my healing journey. I am using my journey to recovery and healing, to help others, to help survivors feel less alone, validated, encouraged and to enable others to understand themselves more. Complex trauma, particularly from severe, prolonged childhood abuse, is profoundly life changing. Complex trauma produces complex adults. The journey to recovery is a painful, often lonely, emotional daily challenge and it is my aim to encourage others in their daily battle. ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

2 thoughts on ““Blessed is … this Union”. It’s the church way …… to believe some abuse, is okay.

  1. God’s way is the right way not the churches way. He is love and He cares. I wouldn’t be alive if not for Him. Now, some of the church members are just that…church members that don’t really care. I have been hurt deeply by some yet I turn around and there is God loving me once again. God is my hope and strength not the church members. ❤