A recent post to my page…
It amazes me how many people get sucked into believing narcissists/sociopaths/psychopaths/paedophiles …… ‘can’t help’ what they do when hurting/abusing others. Even mental health professionals get sucked in.
They can ‘help it’.
They are ‘unwilling’ to stop.
And the very fact that they can behave appropriately around people and ‘choose’ who they prey upon to harm, and do it behind closed doors, and often lie about it, deny it etc…..shows how they *do* know what is good and what is harmful behaviour.
And the ‘excuses’ made about them being abused themselves….. still does ‘not’ take away from the fact that they do ‘choose’ to behave in abusive ways.
They are not psychotic, they are not ‘insane’ – they *do* know right from wrong……. they just lack the willingness to have empathy, conscience, remorse, guilt and they often ‘enjoy’ what they do.
This is as per experts in personality disorders, so please do not fall for anyone stating that they ‘can’t help it’.
Society needs to stop making excuses
for abusive people.
Society needs to stop minimizing,
justifying, normalising and
excusing what they do.
Abuse is increasing and people with these types of personality disorders, are often those causing this increasing abuse.
We need to stop making excuses and having misplaced compassion and realise that when people make choices to harm others, this is never okay.
This is not a page for making ‘excuses’ for abuse ……. and I remind everyone, this is page that is dealing with the life impacting and devastating abuse, many of these personality disordered people have chosen to inflict, wrecking lives, causing suicide and life long mental health issues.
And I am not stating any of this to incite hatred, or revenge, or retaliation ….. but to deal with the ‘reality’ of how abuse is caused, and to support the victims of all this abuse – because the victims did not deserve for these people to choose to inflict abuse upon them.
Abuse is wrong, disgusting and never ‘excusable’.