Lying is acceptable to most people. Not to me. I’ve had way too many people lie to me about serious issues that have harmed me.
If I need to be able to trust someone, and I know they are lying to me – especially to cover their own issues/wrongs that have hurt me – that is the end of any trust I can ever have in that person.
You cannot trust a liar, especially those who can’t even admit they are liars.
Lying to someone is abusive, a betrayal and it is deliberate behaviour. It shows an absolute lack of respect, lack of honesty, lack of empathy and shows how self motivated and weak the person is. And how they are willing to hurt, harm and betray someone, for their own needs which are paramount.
And once someone lies, you are very unwise to not consider what else they have been lying about – as it is unlikely the first lie they have told you.
March 31, 2015 at 8:32 pm
Once someone has fucked me over they don’t get another chance. That’s it. There wiped. They don’t get how much it takes to trust in the first place. Hugs
April 1, 2015 at 12:39 pm
I understand that. Trust is a huge issue for me, and liars cannot be trusted. I’ve learned that lesson well.
((((hugs))))) to you too ❤
April 1, 2015 at 2:08 pm
Hope you OK. Was thinking of you today when i submitted my essay. I called it the sound of silence.