I wrote a recently blog about how I am a Christian and I have every right to judge those who abused me intentionally and enjoyed it.
Typically, a church person ‘had’ to come along and ‘tell’ me that God won’t forgive me of my sins – if I don’t forgive my abusers of theirs, and how ‘she forgave’ people. Spiritual abuse. Religious shaming. How dare she fucking ‘tell’ me how fucking wonderful she thinks she is, and how I should think like her. Who is she? God. No.
And also she went on to ‘tell’ me all about what ‘she’ has done – just to shame me some more. Even using phrases like ‘you may not like this but…..’.
Abusive people love those phrases….. it’s like saying ‘I may be a bitch saying this but…..’. All it shows, is ‘you are a bitch’. If you know something is likely to hurt someone and you don’t even know them, don’t fucking say it. It’s called ’empathy’.
Some people have such a lack of empathy and such an ‘entitlement’ attitude to ‘tell’ others what they should think and do and lord it over people who are not doing the same.
Quite frankly, she can leave me and my blog alone.
She can take her opinions and her religious attitudes and her shaming and shove them up her butt.
And I don’t give a flying fuck whether she is some ‘author’.
I am so sick of church people and their opinions.
Leave me the fuck alone.
This is why I don’t go to church. They can be the worst for shaming abuse survivors.