I have come to realise, unless someone has walked through all the abuse and trauma I have endured, has the insight into abuse and abusers I have as a result of that life experience ……….. their opinion is worthless.
It has always interested me how people who have not endured the amount of abuse, the severity of abuse I have, consider themselves worthy of an opinion – when they do not even know how it feels to endure it all, and do not have the insight all that brings.
People simply choose opinions/views based on their own level of life experiences lived, their own limitations and their own needs to live life in a way that gets them through life how they wish to. And there will be a huge range of assumptions, cognitive distortions, disordered or unwise thinking involved.
And none of that …….. has anything to do with me.