I’ve really come to understand that society and people are full of extremes, and they are never healthy. And they never sit right with my soul.
Example…… How people deal with abusive people who have harmed them.
One Extreme ~ Wanting revenge, retaliation, put their name all over social media, expose them in a vindictive way, vindictive behaviours back, wanting karma, want them to suffer back, taking pleasure in them suffering back etc…..
The Other Extreme ~ People demand you forgive them, feel sorry for them, not have boundaries from them, force reconciliation, demand complete silence, demand you make excuses for them, justify, rationalise their abuse etc…
I see these extremes all the time, on social media posts in particular and neither of these extremes are healthy.
I take the middle of these continuums. Continue reading