Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

A journey to healing from complex trauma.

Love, does not ‘tolerate’ all.

1 Comment


‘Tolerance’ is pushed in society as being something that needs to be extended to all behaviours and all people.

There is little wisdom, in that sentiment.

Firstly, wisdom is required to know what is to be tolerated, and what should not be tolerated.

There is no virtue in tolerating toxic, harmful behaviour, or toxic, harmful people.

Author: Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

I am a survivor of complex and multiple trauma and abuse, who at the age of 40, began my healing journey. I am using my journey to recovery and healing, to help others, to help survivors feel less alone, validated, encouraged and to enable others to understand themselves more. Complex trauma, particularly from severe, prolonged childhood abuse, is profoundly life changing. Complex trauma produces complex adults. The journey to recovery is a painful, often lonely, emotional daily challenge and it is my aim to encourage others in their daily battle. ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

One thought on “Love, does not ‘tolerate’ all.

  1. Thank you so much for validating that I don’t hav to tolerate abuse….I hav been tyd in knots of indescribabl pain trying to force myself as directd by sooo many n all its dun is made me worse n caused anger n bitterness inside that then feeds the guilt n shame….I cudnt see how this cud b rite but I keep bein told I must n must also forgiv forget reconcile n tolerate….it has plunged me into despair n anger feelin a failure for bein unable n feelin like I betray myself tryin to wich I’m told over n over is selfish n sinful….it helpd me a lot to read this…thank you…it feels right n to b comon sense werthe othr teachin I fear is spiritual abuse…its been killing my spirit n causin severe depression n anxiety each time I fail…it just isn’t helpin me heal