Lots of reasons…. I shouldn’t have to ask my counsellor to validate that all the child abuse wasn’t my fault, blame, shame. That was her job to offer that support. I shouldn’t have to be subjected to continual shaming, because her views about abusers are different to mine.
I shouldn’t be made to feel worse about myself, as a result of all this.
A counsellors job is to provide safety for a complex trauma survivor to deal with ‘their’ journey. Not project opinions that hurt and shame.
I’ve already been through enough.