Did some research on women who allow their children to be sexually abused. The list of reasons meant I could establish my mother’s reasons. She isn’t intellectually impaired. She wasn’t in fear of her husband and his friends. She is an intelligent and capable woman who knew right from wrong. She wanted her children abused. She was complicit in it.
She is a female child sex offender, as she ‘facilitated and aided men to sexually abuse her children’.
It was hard enough knowing this is what my step father was and how myself and my siblings grew within this highly abusive and toxic environment and is why we were all sexually abused.
But, to know my mother was not only complicit, but a very willing participant in this, is beyond painful to deal with. Continue reading