We found out today, my husbands nana has passed away. My husband is sad. His dad is really sad – as he was very close to his mum and loved her dearly. I know how painful this will be for him. I’m sad. Grieving is hard. It’s hard when you can’t go to the funeral as well and you feel unable to console people and be there for them.
Although we were not really close, my husband’s family are more of a family to me, than mine ever were. In the last few years, 3 grandparents have all passed. They were kinder to me, than any of my natural family members. Being an empathic person, I also feel the grieving and pain the relatives feel.
It’s a really sad day. I cried in the middle of Bunnings. Thank God for sunglasses.
We planted lots of plants today and 4 in particular, we have named after nana. They are hardy, tough, beautiful just like nana was. And they are evergreen plants, so will always be with us.
Nana was a solitary lady, introverted and loved her gardening. I relate. And her gardens were beautiful.
Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD 
September 26, 2015 at 5:51 am
Sorry for your family’s loss. Hugs ❤
September 26, 2015 at 6:52 am
Thank you. You are very kind and thoughtful ❤