As per discussion in counselling and something that has recently occurred, I am seeking info to know if my mother has died. So, I have messaged the local records office where I know she was living.
I am aware, my siblings would no doubt choose to not tell me if she has, due to this blog. So, I am not expecting to have heard from them, should she have died.
Regardless of my relationship with my mother, I do have a right to know. And then deal with reality, if and when it happens.