Whilst I crave deep connections with people, I am also really enjoying the time I am spending with mature, friendly, uncomplicated, easy going women.
I’ve been walking with two women who are older than myself, a couple of times a week. They chat about their lives, but in an easy going, light hearted, kind, mature, mellow and humorous way. They talk about their lives, but there’s no drama. They like a giggle and can have a giggle about themselves too. I like that. Today, we went to a little café after the walk and had a cup of tea and a chat. It was really nice 🙂
I realise I am wanting light hearted, easy going, mature people in my life. And I don’t want to talk to them about my healing journey. I want to keep the conversation to life’s lighter stuff and enjoy that.
There’s other ladies in this group I am getting to know during the catch up’s each week. I like that too. I like listening to their conversations and what’s going on in their lives.
I was discussing this in counselling today and how I’m enjoying the less intense, more easy going vibes, with ladies I relate more with. I was very much encouraged to continue with this and also keep healthy boundaries with other different types of friendships I have.
Plus, I do have my counsellor to discuss the deeper issues of life with. I have that relationship where she knows me, and all my ‘stuff’ and where I am at in personal growth. I am blessed I have that relationship and have her to talk to each week.
It’s all about keeping life in balance. And I see where the less intense, more mature, more easy going, lighter conversation relationships, are great too and I am thankful for them.