I am picky now, when it comes to people. I now trust my discernment and I have much healthier boundaries.
I choose not to waste my energy on people who cannot be sincere and honest, especially when it comes to own self. I see through people’s masks. I see the real motivations. I see dishonesty, in all it’s many forms.
I have tolerated a lot of unhealthy and toxic behaviour, in my life. Now, I don’t.
I have tolerated a lot of fake people pretending to be someone they are not, in my life. Now, I don’t.
I have tolerated a lot of people who were not genuine in their motivations and thinking, in my life. Now, I don’t.
I have tolerated a lot of selfish people, in my life. Now, I don’t.
I would rather be in my garden, or reading, than engaging with unhealthy, selfish, or dishonest people.
Being genuine, being honest, being sincere, matters. And I can discern this, easily as to whether someone has these character traits, or not. I had to learn this young. And for a long time, I did not trust my discernment capacity. Now, I do.
I have been forced to study human behaviours, all my life. It is as natural to me, as breathing.