I am at that stage in my healing, maturity and growth, I absolutely know – other people’s issues, are nothing to do with me.
I no longer see other people’s issues as a reflection of me. They are only a reflection of themselves.
I no longer absorb them.
I no longer blame myself. Or allow people to blame me for their own issues.
I no longer feel responsible for helping other people fix their issues. I leave that all to them.
I no longer feel I need to endure their issues, as I was trained to in childhood. I now know, I do not have to tolerate them. And enabling them – is unwise and does not benefit anyone.
I totally recognise, other people’s issues, in all their many forms – are theirs.
I am able to leave their issues, with them. And decide how to manage the situation, what boundaries are needed, and whether I wish to allow these issues in my life.