I decided to set up a ladies group, to meet up for coffee. I am hoping it will be a group where women will have some enjoyment, chatting and possibly making friends. It’s going really well. I’ve arranged two so far, and both have been really great, with a good vibe and good feedback. I can already tell which ladies will become the regular core group ladies.
Some of the ladies are quiet and some are really chatty, which is great, because I don’t feel the need to always keep talking, or be responsible for starting conversation. Which helps with my social anxiety issues. I’m really grateful for the diversity of the group.
Plus, I am mindful of not standing out, as I do not wish to become a beacon and target again, for the narcissistic types of people. And I’m aware and have discussed in counselling, why I am an easy target for narc types. So, now I am far more reserved and a lot less open in my conversation and just keeping it light, friendly and fun.
I’m glad I just get to join in conversation, in an easy and laidback manner. We had some laughs during the conversation, which was nice. The ladies are all aged 45 – 60, which is also great, as I relate more to mature minded people.
It is a very pleasant couple of hours and I’m glad the ladies are enjoying it.