Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

A journey to healing from complex trauma.

Man Monis a psychopath. Yes, I said that months ago.

Man Monis, has been diagnosed by a forensic psychiatrist, as a dangerous narcissistic psychopath, who would have killed more people, had he not been shot at the scene of the Lindt Café siege.

And the pathetic legal system Australia has…… let this man out, knowing his criminal history and dangerous personality. And yet again, more people suffered.

Two innocent people died, unnecessarily – because the legal system failed. Many more traumatised. Again.

A pathetic legal system, designed to coddle perpetrators, make excuses for them and fail to protect society.

Of course, to many I would be deemed ‘judgmental’. Which is not correct. I just know psychopaths and narcissists, when I see them. I’ve endured them and know their traits.  They are dangerous, unpredictable and like hurting people. I don’t have to be okay with  that, or make excuses for it, or feel sorry for them ….. like too many unwise people choose.

What many people fail to realise, is in making excuses for these disordered and dangerous people…. they are not helping the perpetrator. Let alone the victims and potential future victims. They are not encouraging the perpetrators with the necessary accountability and responsibility, required to change – if there is any hope of change. In most cases, there is no hope of change. They do need locking up and not letting out, or they will harm more people.

Making excuses for them, giving them second chances, is not compassion…… it’s being really unwise and failing to deal with truth and reality. It is enabling them, in their manipulation and conning people. It’s enabling their darkness.

Some people believe in just showing them kindness and support, they will change. And they love that. It’s exactly the kind of person, they can dupe, manipulate and con. And many fall for it. Including mental health professionals.

This doesn’t mean I believe they need to be hurt back, beaten up, get the bullet or anything of the kind. I don’t want them to ‘get their karma’, or suffer in prison.

I just want what protects the rest of society. What protects innocent people. And keeps these predators, perpetrators, from repeating the behaviours they choose to inflict.

That………… is wise and compassion. For all concerned.


Author: Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

I am a survivor of complex and multiple trauma and abuse, who at the age of 40, began my healing journey. I am using my journey to recovery and healing, to help others, to help survivors feel less alone, validated, encouraged and to enable others to understand themselves more. Complex trauma, particularly from severe, prolonged childhood abuse, is profoundly life changing. Complex trauma produces complex adults. The journey to recovery is a painful, often lonely, emotional daily challenge and it is my aim to encourage others in their daily battle. ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

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