Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

A journey to healing from complex trauma.

I will notice people who use my account 2 gain more followers & make more money.


I am aware of certain people, who wish to use my accounts and work… to further their own needs. When someone who is making money from their accounts…..never shares or likes my work …. yet frequently responds to commenters of my work……. I can see what they are up to.

If someone is genuinely interested in my work, they would share and like it. If they never like or share my work, but are frequently coming to my account, then they have self serving reasons.

I’m a very discerning person. I see the motivations of people, and can figure them out by their patterns of behaviour. I’m not doing all I do, for others to use me, to further their own businesses and egos.

And I will block such people. I give them time, to see what they do, and then once it becomes pretty clear they have self serving motivations, that are not actually about helping people, at all, they no longer get access to my accounts.

I’m here to help people. Full stop. Not to be used by non genuine people.

~ Lilly Hope Lucario

Author: Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

I am a survivor of complex and multiple trauma and abuse, who at the age of 40, began my healing journey. I am using my journey to recovery and healing, to help others, to help survivors feel less alone, validated, encouraged and to enable others to understand themselves more. Complex trauma, particularly from severe, prolonged childhood abuse, is profoundly life changing. Complex trauma produces complex adults. The journey to recovery is a painful, often lonely, emotional daily challenge and it is my aim to encourage others in their daily battle. ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

2 thoughts on “I will notice people who use my account 2 gain more followers & make more money.

  1. that is what I need to learn—The motivations of people. I have never been able to do so, until its too late. that is what happens when a person is honest and trusting. people walk all over you.

    • I’ve come to trust my ‘red flag’ detectors. Interpreting people’s motivations, has become very easy for me. But, it does require sitting back and watching the person/group over time.
      Sadly, there are many non genuine people around.
      I have learned not to tolerate them & to instead deal with them appropriately.

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