Complex Trauma & Forgiveness – Pete Walker

http://www.pete-walker.com/forgiveness.htm

Take note…….. “and/or abuses so heinous they should and could never be forgiven, often find themselves getting nowhere in their recovery process.”

I continually see this assumption, and black and white viewpoint that you must forgive to heal, healing cannot occur without forgiving, and if you don’t forgive – you are bitter and revengeful. All completely wrong, shallow thinking and harmful thinking.

And – shames survivor of heinous abuse – which is more abuse.

‘It Shouldn’t Hurt To Be A Child’ ~ Child Abuse Awareness ft. Calli Kathleen

Earlier today, I was adding a resource to my Website – Incest Survivors United Voices Of America….. and they have this song playing on their website. @ http://www.isuvoa.com/

So, I looked it up on YouTube, listened to it, whilst crying my eyes out.

It is a very emotive song, and my reaction, makes it pretty clear I am done with grieving my childhood.