Take note…….. “and/or abuses so heinous they should and could never be forgiven, often find themselves getting nowhere in their recovery process.”
I continually see this assumption, and black and white viewpoint that you must forgive to heal, healing cannot occur without forgiving, and if you don’t forgive – you are bitter and revengeful. All completely wrong, shallow thinking and harmful thinking.
And – shames survivor of heinous abuse – which is more abuse. Continue reading