Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

A journey to healing from complex trauma.

I wonder what my sister thinks about her conversation with Buckden now?


I am aware one of my toxic sisters, decided to chat with Simon Buckden, about me. This was when Buckden was projecting all his own issues, onto me, by telling many people ‘I’ was the fake and fraud. Which was ‘his’ issues all along. Typical sociopathic trait – projecting.

It doesn’t surprise me my sister went out of her way to talk to Buckden – after all ‘birds of feather flock together’.

Now Buckden has been exposed for the sociopathic, narcissistic, lying, fake, fraud and disgrace to humanity….. I wonder how my sister feels about having chosen to contact Buckden and discuss me, with him?

For details of Buckden, see ( https://healingfromcomplextraumaandptsd.wordpress.com/2016/02/23/simon-buckden-admits-to-faking-cancer-ptsd/?wref=tp )

I’m sure there will be no remorse from my sister. No guilt. No shame. No doubt there will be excuses, and no accountability for discussing me, with someone as dangerous as Buckden. And I do know she did that as an act of revenge against me, for speaking the truth about our childhoods, our toxic mother and her toxic father.

One thing for sure…….. is how this proves that my sister does not have the capacity to pick healthy people to engage with. Whereas, I worked out Buckden quickly and easily.

If you are reading this dear sister……. maybe you could find somewhere in you, to realise how badly you fucked up, in associating and discussing anything with someone as disgusting and vile as Buckden.

And how dangerous and wrong it was, to discuss me, and my personal details, and speak such lies, to this sociopath?


And maybe this is something you should realise shows you cannot discern people well, which shows your lack of capacity for rational and healthy thinking and lack of capacity to work people out. Which is no doubt part of the issue in being unable to appropriately work out exactly what your own father was, and our mother.

And if you have any tiny amount of conscience within you……… you will apologise and own this very big mistake you made, which seriously reflects your issues.

If anything will spark any way of penetrating that denial you live in, and your incredible wrong views about me……. this should be it.

But, I’m not holding my breath….. because like Buckden – you cannot expect character disturbed, toxic people to have any genuine remorse, conscience, guilt……. or any courage to deal with ones own vile behaviours.

And yes, I am allowed to angry you gave personal details about me, to this vile person. That was wrong, and you need to own that. It was dangerous and could have had terrible consequences to my safety and my family’s wellbeing. And you showed no regard for that, at all.

All this issue proves to me, is more validation of me being a rational, intuitive, discerning, healthy person…….. and how you are the exact opposite.

Prove me wrong if you like……… and leave a message here, owning all this.

(I know my sister reads this, because she has left a message before – so I’m aware this blog is read by her).

~ Lilly Hope Lucario

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Author: Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

I am a survivor of complex and multiple trauma and abuse, who at the age of 40, began my healing journey. I am using my journey to recovery and healing, to help others, to help survivors feel less alone, validated, encouraged and to enable others to understand themselves more. Complex trauma, particularly from severe, prolonged childhood abuse, is profoundly life changing. Complex trauma produces complex adults. The journey to recovery is a painful, often lonely, emotional daily challenge and it is my aim to encourage others in their daily battle. ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

2 thoughts on “I wonder what my sister thinks about her conversation with Buckden now?

  1. Thank you for writing this. I too have a sister just like this, and unfortunately for me she considers herself a “therapist” (nlp practitioner and hypnotherapist) she is actually a dangerous and malignant force for me and my family. She uses whatever internet qualifications she has gained to manipulate, lie and mock all those who do not believe her powers. We both had brutal childhoods which would make you think we would be close. Sadly despite many attempts to forge a relationship with her, I finally realised she was toxic and downright dangerous. Much love and courage to you.

    • I am so sorry your sister is toxic too. And very concerning she is a therapist. I feel very sad for her clients. Sadly there are toxic therapists. The abuse their position to hurt vulnerable people.

      I am glad you have healthy boundaries with her, especially if she will never change. I know it’s painful. But, needed.

      Much love, Lilly ❤

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