I see people believing they are ‘good people’ for choosing not to take sides in a matter of abuse.
I see people believing they are peacekeepers.
I see people thinking they are showing compassion to both parties.
I call BULLSHIT.
It’s a load of crap and I see straight through it.
These attitudes of remaining ‘neutral’ are simply self serving, cowardly acts of choosing the easy road that creates the least issues to self.
If you choose to remain neutral – you are by default taking the side of the abuser. You are aiding the abuser. You are harming the victim.
Even if you won’t believe this, it is true.
One thing I have learned in life
more than anything else
– is humanity’s deep capacity
to believe their own lies,
their own bullshit and delude themselves
with all manner of excuses
And I will see straight through it all…….. to the real motivations behind these behaviours. Continue reading