Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

A journey to healing from complex trauma.

Don’t delude yourself that’s it’s ‘good’ – if you choose to be neutral in the case of abuse ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

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I see people believing they are ‘good people’ for choosing not to take sides in a matter of abuse.

I see people believing they are peacekeepers.

I see people thinking they are showing compassion to both parties.

I call BULLSHIT.

It’s a load of crap and I see straight through it.

These attitudes of remaining ‘neutral’ are simply self serving, cowardly acts of choosing the easy road that creates the least issues to self.

If you choose to remain neutral – you are by default taking the side of the abuser. You are aiding the abuser. You are harming the victim.

Even if you won’t believe this, it is true.

One thing I have learned in life

more than anything else

– is humanity’s deep capacity

to believe their own lies,

their own bullshit and delude themselves

with all manner of excuses

and rationalisations.

And I will see straight through it all…….. to the real motivations behind these behaviours.

~ Lilly Hope Lucario

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Author: Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

I am a survivor of complex and multiple trauma and abuse, who at the age of 40, began my healing journey. I am using my journey to recovery and healing, to help others, to help survivors feel less alone, validated, encouraged and to enable others to understand themselves more. Complex trauma, particularly from severe, prolonged childhood abuse, is profoundly life changing. Complex trauma produces complex adults. The journey to recovery is a painful, often lonely, emotional daily challenge and it is my aim to encourage others in their daily battle. ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

3 thoughts on “Don’t delude yourself that’s it’s ‘good’ – if you choose to be neutral in the case of abuse ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

  1. I have had people in my life who remained neutral when I was abused by my mother and I have always thought they were as guilty as she was, so your words and explanation on this made me feel more at peace that I am not the only one who shares the same view on this.

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