It is my understanding that narcissists do not change. And that is the view of many mental health professionals who have experience and insight into personality disordered, toxic, character disordered people.
He’s had a session today. And when I ask him about it, he is evasive, refuses to talk about it, and remains secretive. Which only furthers my view that toxic people, don’t and won’t change. He’s always been a liar, devious, manipulative, secretive and that won’t change.
But, I am at the point now, where I don’t care about whatever he is doing, thinking, unless it affects my children. He doesn’t have the power to bring me down anymore. I have removed that power I used to allow him to have over me. And it feels so much better. His issues are nothing to do with me, in any way. And I know that now.
I agree more and more with experts like Dr. George Simon, who speaks clearly about toxic, manipulative, dishonest people never changing.
And I agree.
It is stupidity to assume they will ever change. Continue reading →
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