Two posts I wrote today on my Lilly Hope Lucario Facebook page @
Just because there are some people who are unable to cope with the fact they were intentionally abused by someone who did not love them….
Does not give them the right to push their self serving abuser excuser beliefs, onto those of us who do deal with the truth.
Understanding the truth about abusers and the intentional motivation, along with knowing the abuser’s unwillingness to have remorse, empathy or reagrd for human suffering……
Does not make us someone lacking in compassion.
It makes us people with the capacity and courage for truth.
And I do have appropriate compassion for abusers – because I don’t wish them anything inappropriate. I don’t wish them ‘bad karma’, or any form of pay back.
But, I do understand the necessity for them to face the consequences of their chosen actions. Including legal action, contacting the police, jail time if necessary.
People who have beliefs that make excuses, enable, minimize etc – are not dealing with truth, reality and have no empathy for the victims.
In fact, they have no empathy for the abuser. Because making excuses and enabling an abuser – is not in the abusers best interests either.
So when people deem people like myself as ‘lacking in compassion’ for abusers – they are simply delusional. And greatly misled by their own self serving and self soothing needs.
~ Lilly Hope Lucario
I am so over seeing behaviours such as….. a lack of empathy, conscience, remorse, shame, guilt, a sense of entitlement, and a lack of regard for causing suffering to others…… classed as ‘mental illness’.
They are not about mental illness……….. they are being a shitty and abusive person.
They are all the character traits of narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths.
I’ve been abused by them all, and I know 100% they all knew what they were doing was wrong, they all caused abuse intentionally and they kept on doing it anyway.
Pretending or deluding self that ‘they can’t help it’ – is simply wrong.
Yes – they can help it, because they can all act differently around people.
They can all act ‘nicely’ when they are grooming potential prey, or are around people they want to impress.
They select the behaviours they want to have, around different types of people.
Showing they can indeed have self control.
There are too many ‘abuser excusers’ and flying monkeys in this world…….
all choosing to enable abusers and not make them accountable for their chosen actions.
And that never helps the victims, and in fact – it doesn’t even help the abusers.
Something many fail to realise.
~ Lilly Hope Lucario
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