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People seem so shocked when paedophiles/child sex offenders – seem so ‘normal’ & ‘nice’. I’m not.

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Ben McCormack and news of his child sex offender crimes, are all over the internet. And how these crimes have been going on for at least 2 years.

What strikes me as so dangerous – is how many people are shocked, because he seems so ‘normal’ and so ‘nice’ – to so many people. People are reporting how shocked they are that this man is not the image he projected.

https://au.news.yahoo.com/nsw/a/34966632/disgraced-aca-reporter-ben-mccormack-chatted-exchanged-lewd-pictures-with-another-man-for-two-years-police-will-allege/#page1

I’m aware that because I grew in a home that encouraged and orchestrated child sexual abuse, I know these people exist. And I know how manipulative and skilled they are – at hiding who they really are. They do often appear very normal. And very nice. But, they are not normal. Or nice. They are like sociopaths – who know what they are doing is wrong, and they plan their abuse and do it over long periods of time. And they have no remorse, no empathy, no conscience.

Apparently this heinous human being is now in hospital after being exposed for who he really is. Tough. He wasn’t thinking about the harm his planned and intentional abuse crimes were having on the victims.

Often these predators can feign remorse when caught out. But, believe me – this is simply an act because they have been caught. They fake remorse, fake being ‘cured’ to get lenient jail time. They will even act like the victim, if needed. And so many people fall for it. Including mental health professionals and those involved in the prison/legal system. I’m sure many paedophiles who repeat offended after jail time…….. lied and said they would never do it again. But, they do.

I’m glad this vile person has been caught and exposed. I have no sympathy for people who intentionally cause harm – especially when the harm is children and even more so – when it is child sexual abuse.

Sadly, many parents will not take heed of this warning – these predators are everywhere and they hide in plain sight. Parents need to be very vigilant and careful of who they allow around their children.

And it’s the failure to understand this, that sadly leads to so much child sexual abuse occurring.

Which means there are so many children being abused in this most heinous way, and having to live with the life long consequences.

¬ Lilly Hope Lucario

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Author: Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

I am a survivor of complex and multiple trauma and abuse, who at the age of 40, began my healing journey. I am using my journey to recovery and healing, to help others, to help survivors feel less alone, validated, encouraged and to enable others to understand themselves more. Complex trauma, particularly from severe, prolonged childhood abuse, is profoundly life changing. Complex trauma produces complex adults. The journey to recovery is a painful, often lonely, emotional daily challenge and it is my aim to encourage others in their daily battle. ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

One thought on “People seem so shocked when paedophiles/child sex offenders – seem so ‘normal’ & ‘nice’. I’m not.

  1. It is appalling how people still don’t get it.

    This isn’t rocket science.
    It’s not that complicated.

    There are monsters preying on children.
    Child sexual assault is Terrorism.
    It’s a form of murder.

    Child porn, molestation, sexual abuse, inappropriate touching or talking, and child rape are all forms of sexual assault to a child.

    There’s nothing to discuss or study or debate.

    These monsters CHOOSE to do this.
    They never change.
    They lie about everything.

    Lock them up and throw away the key.

    They are terrorizing helpless children.
    They intentionally destroy lives.

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