Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

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We Can Call People Who Choose To Inflict Ongoing Abuse – Exactly What They Are

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I’m pretty over hearing people say it’s not okay to ‘call people names’.
When those people choose their ongoing behaviours.
And yes, it is a choice.

If someone doesn’t want to be called names – don’t choose your abusive behaviours.

It’s as simple as that.

If you choose them….. then you accept what people will rightly describe you as.

It’s as simple as that.

There are more I could add to the list, but I can’t fit them all on one meme.

Any one who doesn’t like this………….. tough.
 Stop shaming the victims and focus on what the abusers do.

~ Lilly Hope Lucario

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Author: Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

I am a survivor of complex and multiple trauma and abuse, who at the age of 40, began my healing journey. I am using my journey to recovery and healing, to help others, to help survivors feel less alone, validated, encouraged and to enable others to understand themselves more. Complex trauma, particularly from severe, prolonged childhood abuse, is profoundly life changing. Complex trauma produces complex adults. The journey to recovery is a painful, often lonely, emotional daily challenge and it is my aim to encourage others in their daily battle. ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

One thought on “We Can Call People Who Choose To Inflict Ongoing Abuse – Exactly What They Are

  1. Absolutely spot on Lilly Hope. These vile, malicious sociopaths have chosen their behaviors, or misbehaviors should I say so they have earned their names. To all you narcissists out there boohoo and stop playing the “victim” when called the names you’ve earned!