Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

A journey to healing from complex trauma.

Narcissists, Sociopaths & Psychopaths And Infidelity ~ Lilly Hope Lucario


Of all the many kinds of abuse that narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths (I will refer to them as toxic people) choose to inflict on their victims – infidelity is one.

My toxic ex (we are separated) cheated throughout his first marriage and I’ve just been told – cheated throughout ours.

Someone has let me know my ex cheated back before we moved to Australia. I’m not at all surprised. Anyone who can sexually abuse a survivor of severe sexual abuse – is capable of anything.

Infidelity is just one of the many things toxic people do – with no remorse, no conscience, no guilt, no shame, no empathy. And of course – if you confront them – they will act outraged that you would suggest such a thing about them.

My ex has no understanding of love, honesty, decency, care, integrity or anything that is found in decent human beings.

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It’s interesting to recently hear friend’s opinions of my toxic ex. How difficult them found him. How he’s ignorant and shallow. Very boring and weird. And he’ll never change. He will wallow in his darkness and feeling like a victim all his life. 


I am moving forward with my life. I’m raising my boys to be the opposite of their father. I’m raising them to be good men, who treat women with respect and dignity. I’m planning for my future and I am developing friendships again.

I’m moving forward with my business and whilst that is not yet creating a profit – I am doing what is necessary to build a client base and expand my social media etc – in order to have a successful business in the future.

I’m also excited about my future relationship with the kind of man I deserved all along – caring, grounded, giving, empathic, intelligent, with integrity and courage to be real about self. Who sees the bigger picture, and the deeper issues in life, whilst having a sense of humour and ability to laugh at himself.

You can’t change the past – you can only learn from it and create the life you want from this point onwards.

And I will have the life I deserve.

~ Lilly Hope Lucario

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Author: Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

I am a survivor of complex and multiple trauma and abuse, who at the age of 40, began my healing journey. I am using my journey to recovery and healing, to help others, to help survivors feel less alone, validated, encouraged and to enable others to understand themselves more. Complex trauma, particularly from severe, prolonged childhood abuse, is profoundly life changing. Complex trauma produces complex adults. The journey to recovery is a painful, often lonely, emotional daily challenge and it is my aim to encourage others in their daily battle. ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

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