People screw up. Some more than others, but to me it’s they deal with what they’ve done wrong that matters…
Do they own their wrongdoing.
Do they apologise.
Do they mean it.
Do they have remorse.
Do they try to put it right.
All of these indicate someone’s true character and whether they are decent people.
It’s always one of life’s biggest tests. How they deal with screwing up. And sadly in my lifetime, all I’ve ever seen is selfish people denying, rationalising, making excuses, gas-lighting, invalidating etc. All typical behaviours of weak, narcissistic, selfish people. Continue reading